Hagakure, Book
" The right way to criticize others.
blame others and correct the flaws of others is important. It is, indeed, an act of charity: the first requirement of a samurai. But we must exercise such tasks as Acconci. It is easy to find faults in another's conduct, it is equally easy to criticize them. Many consider it an act of courtesy to say certain things in people's faces that they do not want to hear. And if not then the damage straight to your criticism, well, do you wash your hands, you can not do anything else. This method is far from laudable. It does not give you better result if you put Chenna, stubbornly, to insult and shame the people . It's just a way to unburden the conscience. Criticism must begin only after ascertaining that the person is willing to accept it, until be became friends, sharing his interests and have behaved in a way to gain his complete trust, so that others give credence to what I say. And then we must have tact. It has to find the right way, and the adapter time to say one thing: perhaps put it in a letter, or maybe put it together after coming home a pleasant meeting. One can perhaps begin by pointing to its failures, and then come to the point without wasting a word more than necessary. He first praised the strength of the other, you encourage, you put the proper mood, it becomes receptive and eager for advice as it is, the water, the thirsty. So, correct its defects. Critics good is extremely difficult.
I know from personal experience that the bad habits acquired over the years, we get lost easily. In my opinion, the right attitude and charity for all samurai in the service of daimyo, you star in friendship with each other, familiar, and then correcting each other's faults, to better serve the daimyo together. Shameless person to deliberately do not get anything. How could it be effective, such a tactic? "
Therefore you anything but false, old bastard.
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